I have a fiance who is in jail for - well, I can't really say. But I'm the only visitor he has. I'm the only one who writes to him. He cannot and will not be able to have conjugal visits while he's in jail. I feel that the law should be encouraging men to have normal, healthy relationships with their wives or girlfriends. It's stupid to not allow it. I don't think that the lack of conjugal visiting encourages my fiance to turn to men, but it certainly doesn't encourage anything else! Men in prison need to be encouraged to have a normal relationship with women, provided that that is what they want. I love this man and have no intentions of leaving him. I can't say that I won't have sex with anyone else while he's imprisoned. I'm 40 and attractive. I don't really know what to do. I don't want to be with anyone else, but I need to have companionship. I feel badly about the whole thing. I want to be with my man so very badly and I don't mean just sexually, but we did have a good sex life and frankly, I miss it with him. I just want to tell you my opinion. Feel free to contact me if you want.