When my boyfriend was in the hole in the X prison, we had to take "security" visits. They are through glass in a little room by ourselves. Nobody can see us, but there's a video camera, no children or anything like that. I pulled up my shirt and showed him my breasts. A guard watching on the camera threw me out of the prison. Superintendent X banned me for life. I can't visit my boyfriend anymore. I didn't hurt anyone. There's not really any rule against what I did*. What's wrong with showing my lonesome boyfriend what he wants to see? Is it better for him to be a homo? Superintendent X told my boyfriend that I should write a letter begging to get my visiting back. When I did that he answered that what I did was too blatant. Everybody hopes that Superintendent X gets replaced soon. He's a liar and he doesn't like women. *[Footnote] The young woman who wrote this piece is correct. Prison visiting regulations are very limiting and obsessed with sex. The Pennsylvania prison system is neurotic on the subject. But the regulations, DC-ADM 812, don't actually forbid a flash of flesh anyplace in it's over 25 pages of mostly sexual rules. The prison system's unhealthy and unnatural preoccupation with sex smacks of the nutty extremes of a parochial grade school. We all know where that kind of training leads to: priests privately tutoring alter boys. The superintendent involved in this story is known as a jerk who's none too bright. What's needed are sane conjugal visiting in all the prisons. Keep people together, not apart. [ESG] Rebecca's Bargain Antiques Collectible Vintage Photos Fine Prints - Old Maps Sheet Music - Old Books Elegant Antiques and Collectibles "Nothing is more dangerous than an idea when you have only one idea" Alain 1938 You are welcome to use or republish any of our material. Please give www.prisoners.com credit as the source. Return to the Families and Visiting Menu Return to the Main Menu Go to our site's Search Engine Send us Your Comments or Input.